What attracts a man to his future wife? This is a paradox every woman would want to uncover and a riddle some me would love they possed. Being an award winning artist, producer and an entrepreneur, you would understand the number and women am expsed to. Life is cool and yet you need someone to complete your life. You hustle had to líve good be happy. This is what every human being, man or woman, hopes for. The only difference is, whereas a single woman husttles to ensure she looks good, a single man hustles for a family he hopes for. No wonder i always say, a man's role is to provide, protect and pray. That is the reason God made them men. He must make sure all is well with his inner and extended family. Now which kind of woman woukd he look for? Mhhhhh, lets find out.
11. Understanding
Men struggle with visual temptation. This means the vast majority of men respond to visual images when it comes to women. And, this doesn't just mean the guys with wandering eyes. Even the most godly husband cannot avoid noticing a woman who dresses in a way that draws attention to her body. Even if it is just a glance, these visual images are stored away in the male brain as a sort of "visual rolodex"; that will reappear without any warning. Men can choose whether to dwell on these images and memories or dismiss them, but they can't control when these images appear. How much can you take as woman. That is the streghth of your character.
True, many men appear to be unromantic clods, but it doesn't mean that they want to be that way! Men want to be romantic, but they just doubt their ability to pull it off. They are plagued by internal hesitations, perceiving the risk of humiliation and failure as too high. Wives can do a great deal to increase their husbands' confidence in their romantic skills through encouragement and redefining what romance looks like. For example, a wife may balk when her husband asks her to go along to the hardware store, but it's likely that he's asking because he sees it as a time they can get away as a couple and hang out together. What's not romantic about that?
10: Ambition and Industriousness
Despite the pervasive stereotype that men are intimidated by ambitious women, men rank this trait ahead of others like refinement, being a good cook and having similar religious backgrounds. While it’s not high on our list it is clear that men find a woman’s drive, determination and energy attractive qualities in a life partner. You don't want to be a woman who always complain about fare when he has bigger stuff to sought out. He wants to see a woman who puts effort because she is his next of kin.
9: Desire for Home and Children
A woman’s desire for home and children has become less attractive to men over time. As women have increasingly achieved similar levels of education and career status, men may have begun to perceive them as more equal partners. How to divide the labour of home and work isn’t as obvious as it was to their grandparents’ generation.
8: Good Looks
Women’s looks have become increasingly important to men over the years. Looks aren't on the list of what women want in a husband, but it has become more important to them over time. Perhaps because modern marriages are more likely based on love and attraction rather than practicalities (like wealth or status), physical attractiveness is more desirable.
7: Good Health
Men look for good health in a potential wife, but it is slightly less important to them today than it was in the past. In the 1930s and again in the 1970s, they ranked a woman’s health at No. 5. They are smart to rank it fairly high on their marriage-material list. Both sexes are living well into their 70s, and often older, making good health a predictor of a long-lasting marriage.
No. 6: Sociability
Both men and women rank sociability at No. 6 on their lists of mate preferences. And for both sexes, it has been steadily moving up the list from around No. 12 in 1939. Because today’s married couples are more likely to be friends and have mutual circles of friends, it makes sense that this has become a more attractive characteristic.
5: Pleasing Disposition
Men place a potential wife’s pleasing disposition at No. 5 and have included it in their top-five traits since the 1930s. On the other hand, women in recent years are less likely to prioritize a man’s pleasing disposition. We are just men.
No. 4: Education and Intelligence
A woman’s education and intelligence are more attractive to men than ever before. This characteristic has been steadily climbing the ranks of men’ desires for decades. Now that women are receiving 60% of college degrees and are half of the workforce, men are looking for women who are both intelligent and educated–or in other words, more accomplished and interesting than ever.
3: Emotional Stability and Maturity
Both men and women consistently cite emotional stability and maturity as one of the most attractive traits in a potential spouse. While men often fall victim to the stereotype of prioritizing physical attraction, when it comes to a potential wife, we want a woman who is grounded and secure in herself.
2: Dependable Character
Throughout the 20th century a woman’s dependable character has been a top priority for men. Like women, men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it’s no surprise that dependability would continue to be attractive.
1. Love, Trust and Respect
Above all those traits a woman has to love, trust and respect his man and vice versa. If this is nurtured, moulded and consumed, the results would be amazing. I will be writing more on this trait.
Unfortunately if this is not portrayed in the cause of your marriage is when you will start experiencing mother in-law interference even including being her son's next of kin. Hahaha.
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